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Monday, October 31, 2005

Back to reading "Lovescope"...check out yours!!!

This Week's Weekly Lovescopes
for the week of 10/31 - 11/6

What to expect this week:
Play turns serious on Saturday when Venus leaves outgoing Sagittarius and enters cautious Capricorn. Love should not be left to chance with the planet of romance in this well-organized sign. Awkwardness in new social situations is more likely now, but effort is rewarded. If you're willing to put in the time, you can improve your attitude and appearance which can produce more desirable results in relationships of all kinds.

ARIES (March 20–April 19)
Your planet Mars is still moving backwards in slow-moving Taurus, which may put the brakes on you social life. But the Moon in fellow Fire sign on Friday could spark your old sense of adventure and stir up some of that playful energy that makes you so attractive.

TAURUS (April 20–May 20)
Letting down your guard might be a good thing this weekend, Taurus. A little romantic foolishness may be what it takes to break the emotional ice. Besides, with your planet Venus heading into managerial Capricorn, you can easily recover from relationship "mistakes" now.

GEMINI (May 21–June 20)
Surprises can turn your plans upside down this weekend. Words pop out of mouths that could be embarrassing, but if you can avoid getting caught up in judgment, you can turn the situation to your advantage. A laugh and a smile are your keys to romantic success.

CANCER (June 21–July 22)
Loving Venus enters your house of partnership on Saturday, Cancer, a good sign for getting clearer and closer. Stating what you expect from a relationship can be the glue that makes it last, especially when you can express your needs without destructive anger or guilt.

LEO (July 23–August 22)
A powerful contact with Saturn on Thursday can throw up an obstacle on the path to love. But keeping an open heart can overcome any resistance that comes your way. Being generous, and giving more than you get is the magic that returns romance to your life.

VIRGO (August 23–September 22)
Listen, Virgo, it's safe to go just a little wild this weekend. Instead of being the sanest, safest and most responsible person you know, this is your time to break out with a fresh look and attitude that can shake up your social life and bring you some needed excitement.

LIBRA (September 23–October 22)
Encountering an attractive but stubborn person can be a test of your relationship skills this weekend. It may take all of your supply of charm to coax this individual into playing the game your way. But avoid putting on too much pressure to get the results you want now.

SCORPIO (October 23–November 22)
A creative connection between your ruling planets Mars and Pluto can make for some mid-week magic, Scorpio. You've got incredible power of persuasion then, even with someone who seems to have closed the door on you. Don't take "no" for answer if you want more.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21)
You can go through some emotional extremes this week, encountering doubts and then rising again with returning hope. The Moon enters your sign on Thursday, setting the stage for a comeback in your personal life, so don't hide in the shadows then.

CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19)
Venus, the planet of love and pleasure, enters your sign on Saturday, which marks a definite warming trend in relationship matters. Putting a little more attention on your appearance can produce major positive results. When you like the way you look, others will love it.

AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18)
Your brain is buzzing with a million ideas this weekend. Your patience for slow talkers may be very limited. So get yourself around people with minds that move as quickly as yours. Fast conversations increase your attention span and make it possible for conversation to lead from your head to your heart.

PISCES (February 19–March 19)
A friend, classmate or co-worker can help put your social life on track this weekend. This is no time to turn down an invitation, even if your confidence has been slipping lately. Small steps of bravery will build into a walk of courage that will have you dancing with joy.

Lovescopes provided by stariq.com.

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Saturday, October 15, 2005

A belated "Thank you" for all


This is my 25th birthday cake. Geezzz.... It is specially selected by my mum-in-law. She has gone to the trouble to get me a cake and help alan's sis and bro to get me 2 blouse tops. I am touched by her actions and would like to convey my deepest thank you to her through this blogspot. I love the present that is specially chosen for me from my hub. He has given me a samsung E530C hp, a long pinky bolster, a pink hp pouch as well as a stickers with my name on it. It is so sweet of him to give me these. My favourite remains the hp not because it is the most expensive gifts. It is what I wish to get but it turns out to be a birthday gift from him. Thank you Thank you, I love and will treasure this hp. Geezzzz...... Yeah! I love the white spaghetti blouse from alan's bro and sis. It is also another gift that I like. I would like to express lotsa of thanks to all those who have sent sms and even msn me to give me the special greeting of "Happy Birthday"....THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!

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Monday, October 10, 2005

Bub's Birthday

Happy Birthday to You!
Happy Birthday to You!
Happy Birthday to Myself!
Happy Birthday to Me!
Happy Birthday to Bubbly Brenda!

Wowwwww!!! I am delighted and excited for my birthday to arrive at the strike of 12. However I feel that I am older by 1 year liao. Sad to reach certain age where it is time for me to be even more mature and must think logically at times. Haiz. I am always so simple minded and hope my growing up will make me look more brilliant, young and ravishing. My wish is to PASS ALL MODULES IN NIE, MORE HEALTH CONSCIOUS, BE MORE PRETTY!!! hehe.....oh gosh! You have been wondered why I want to be more pretty. The reason is that I want to have less pimples and also to be prepared to be a bride next year. So must look nice and have outer beauty even though I possess inner beauty. Geezzzzz.........

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Saturday, October 08, 2005

大长今...Korean Drama

我好喜欢看这部连续剧 “大长今 ”。 好感人的一部电影! 真让我流下伤感的眼泪, 一部一部的追看着。 决对不会放弃一部银幕, 好喜欢在多看, 结局真的让众人都赞成。 It is worth catching this show. I have been stuck to the tv for hour without stopping to view on this drama. Even though I have tons of assignment to rush, I still make myself free to watch this touching drama. I highly recommend this show and I give it a high rating.

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Thursday, October 06, 2005

Bub's dreamland

Today I find myself having a wonderful feast at Delifrance. Imagine myself indulging on a small bowl of chicken stew pasta. You must have guessed that I have eaten all. Alas! I cannot finish the chicken, all chicken pieces are stewed in big cube sizes. The chef there should learn how to slice the meat in smaller pieces and how they can expect my small-sized mouth to chew the meat up to tiny bits. What's a screw up? Anyway, I don't even care to give feedback. The gravy over the pasta with the mushroom is the one that pleased me most. I can say I am not choosy when I come to foods. I would like to be a food gourmet, wouldn't I?

After the meal and a long talk with my nie frens, it's time for us to leave the area and set on our journey back our home sweet home. I love sleeping no matter where am I. I can feel I have lack of a long and sounded sleep. The moment I reached back, I got knocked off straightaway. Oh god! I slept from 2 plus to almost 5 plus. How I wish I am in a fairytale story. I am the sleeping beauty, waiting for my prince charming to kiss me and awake me from my deep sleep. You know what makes me wake up? The NIE assignments. The hear of these sensitive words pierced through my ears and I got alarm by persisting reminders. It tells, "If you don't wake up, you cannot get the work done. Is now or never?" Sounds familiar to me, because in my subconscious, I am always reminding myself that I have to get it over and done with. This would then not caused me to have sleepless night and thus, I would not have afternoon nap. What the...? By the way, I am happy that Dr Lee finally not giving any tutorial for the coming week.

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Wednesday, October 05, 2005

Thanks a million!!!

Let's me update you on my house. The house is done with all the painting and even cleaning up. I must offer my thanks to all these people: 1) my helpful and lovely sister 2) hardworking and efficient in work specially for my sis-in-law 3) love idle but help to clear mess and mop the floor specially for my brother 4) working non-stop to my hub-hub 5) excellent job in painting to hub's friend, Raymond 6) Wonderful assistance to painting and touching up to my hub's dad 7) Help us in all extraodinary work in our house specially for hub's mum 8) moral support from my mum and dad and my bro overseas as well as my "ah ma" and hub's brother and even hub's sister and many more to add as i update this blog in the future for those who helps in making this house possible. Wow! A long list to go. I bet I save up a lot on renovation cost and miscellaneous stuffs. This November, the moment that I await my curtain to be fixed up, in addition to the sofa arrived at my new house.

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Listening for Love

There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words ‘I love you’. So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say ‘take care’ or ‘don’t drive too fast’ or ‘be good’.

Sounds true and convincing...

But really, these are just other ways of saying ‘I love you’. ‘You are important to me’, ‘I care what happens to you, and ‘I don’t want you to get hurt’ all mean ‘I love you’. We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don’t say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.

A very sad story...

Therefore, I believe we have to listen for love in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments, which are expressed insincerely. An impulsive hug says ‘I love you’ even though the words might be saying something very different. Any expression of a person’s concern for another says ‘I love you’. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that it contains.

A lot of hidden meaning...

We say ‘I love you’ in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even harshly. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness.
Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express. The problem is listening for love is that we don’t always understand the language of love, which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language.

Will it happen?

We have to force ourselves to really listen for love. The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don’t listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. Simon and Garfunkel wrote that very haunting song, The Sound of Silence . It goes: Ten thousand people, maybe more. People talking without speaking; people hearing without listening; people writing songs that voices never shared, because no one dared disturb the sound of silence... It is a terrifying picture of our modern world, a world without communication and without love.

Listen from your heart...

We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realise. Just listen!

Love is in the air!!!

(By Jayne Fisher)

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Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Staring eyes....trying to act serious!!!! Nothing better to do .....playing with my new hp "Samsung E530C" ....i jus love to try out new stuffs. Thanks my hubby for giving me the phone as my birthday present...Muaks***

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A load off my mind

Fast man! I have almost done with my house. Painting and Cleaning all completed. Feeling relax now, oh gosh! Plenty of assignments to do and I find myself struggling madly. So better dun come disturb or I will bite u. Geezzz....Hub HUb...Dun be too serious at times ....try to relax...and dun forget about me lor....I know you are also studying now....Dun get stress too....Jia You....And must encourage your Bub BUb...That's me!!! Alrite this november, my curtains for the house and some of the furniture will be here....Cannot wait to reach that month when I complete all project but may start stressing for the 2 examination modules. Particularly, I am stress with MM II ....I am lost sometimes in the air. And got the surge of anger, but nowhere to vent. Haiz... Hopefully it gets better...Pray hard and must listen to wat my laoda says....Must always go pray pray before exams and even after exams...I believe! I supports her statement. I jus want to be back my old self...playing maplesea...But I have lost all entertainment. No TV, No game, facing computer all days long and attending lectures and tutorials....Is that a life? Is that a graduate life? I am lost in time management. Should take up one of this course sometimes....I just love to go with edna for skydiving one day. Keep my finger crossed....hope I will pluck up some courage to go with her... haha

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Looked stress with tiring eyes...about to knock off

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That's my recent photo....biting my finger again!!!

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